
Since I was six or seven years old, my dad and I have tried our best to keep up with yearly backpacking adventures. Save two years surrounding the pandemic, we’ve been largely successful in our endeavor. Carving out two to three nights every summer to venture into the mountain range several hours from our central Oregon home (the name of which will not be mentioned as to make sure we don’t end up needing to co-inhabit those lakes with any more people than already know about them next summer). Our tradition continued this past weekend, although this time was doubled with a sense of ending. The last backpacking trip together before I leave for college, just as our family coastal camping trip was our last camping trip all together before both my brother and I left to our respective new states. My brother is now off in Colorado and thriving (or, “buzzing” as he would describe it) in hockey, the finality of this trip hung even heavier.
The heaviness did little to negate the amount of joy in this trip however, as I’d say it was one of my favorite backpacking trips we’ve ever been on together. As I’ve grown up more, I’ve learned to appreciate how special it is that I have parents who are loving, caring, and want to spend time getting to know me. Not everyone has the privilege of having parents who have an abundance of what I consider basic human decency. And having two wonderful humans as parents is something of a miracle!
This trip began as all do, with a several hour long car ride consisting of audio books, conversations about fossils and teaching, and exclamations of excitement on my part every time we passed a field of cows. Arriving at the parking lot nestled among cliffs and trees, we were dismayed to find more cars than usual littering the area. However, we met a few people, and chalked the increased number of people to it being a weekend, as we usually visit the lakes on a weekday.

Our first day at the lake began later in the night than usual, as we had left Bend only after I had gotten off work. Having gotten contacts only several days before we left, the ability to see was quite a surprise. For the first time and only time, I was the one to point out the first star in the twilight sky. I also spotted my first shooting star. Finally a first on the trip or lasts.



The second day we hiked around six miles to a lake cradled in a glacier-made amphitheater of rock. Eating wild onions, discovering bones of a discarded cloven-toed leg, and relishing in the silence of the woods. Last year this silence brought to us a herd of several dozen mountain goats who, over the course of a few hours, migrated their way down the slopes until they arrived at the lake with us. While the herd had already moved on this year, they left behind trampled grasses, munched stems and most exciting of all- clumps of wool left behind on stray branches! As an avid needle felter, the anticipation of cleaning, preparing, and felting with the wool kept my giddy all trip.



The most important part of the trip wasn’t all the fun things we did, or the beautiful cliffs, trees and water we saw. The most important thing was getting to spend time together before I leave for college. Past memories mingling with the promise of more. Returning to a place, leaving it again but knowing that eventually I’ll return next year. A reminder that the rituals I love will continue year after year in the same way I will get to return to this home, with my family I love year after year (hopefully more often than that). Even as I grow and change, some things will remain the same for as long as they can. And for that I am so grateful.

Thank you Dad, for being my adventure buddy.













